为人母虽只3个多春秋,我便已饱尝了养育孩子的艰辛。从孩子呱呱坠地到咿呀学语,使我感到焦虑、苦恼的不是如何抚养,而是如何教育引导。我也像其他父母一样,有过“望子成龙”的期望,有过“恨铁不成钢”的焦躁。然而在教育孩子的过程中,我越来越深刻地体会到,越是性格内向或反应较慢的孩子越是需要父母的关心、爱护和鼓励,越是需要父母保持一颗平常心。由于难产,我儿子出生时Ⅰ度窒息,患了新生儿肺炎,造成严重贫血,直到满月才出医院。由于窒息损伤了脑细胞,再加上孩子体弱多病,1周岁以前无论是反应的灵敏度还是动作发育都比同龄的孩子慢, Although the mothers only more than three years of spring and autumn, I have already taken the hard way to raise children. From the birth of babies to babbling language, I am anxious, distressed not how to raise, but how to educate and guide. Like other parents, I also had the expectation of being a “hopeful” and had “an iron piece of iron”. However, in the process of educating children, I have come to realize more and more that the more introverted or responsive children the more they need their parents’ care, love and encouragement, the more they need their parents to maintain an ordinary heart. Due to difficult labor, my son was asphyxia at birth, suffering from neonatal pneumonia and causing severe anemia until the full moon came out of the hospital. Due to asphyxiation damage to brain cells, coupled with the child frail, before the age of 1, whether the sensitivity of the reaction or motor development than the same age children slow,