“把两个陌生人关进同一个房间,时间是一辈子,只许相互适应,不许相互厌倦。”这听上去非常可怕的状况是什么?——夫妻。 绝大多数的人,难免做上一生的夫或一生的妻。就像其他所有人生难免的事情一样,它的规则实际上是非常微妙而有趣的。 夫妻规则之一是默契。对于必须共同生活一辈子的两个人来说,如果没有无须言传、心心相印的默契,那生活肯定是可想而知的无聊庸俗。有一个故事把这种默契表现得非常精当:深夜,一对夫妻正在沉睡 “The two strangers locked into the same room, the time is a lifetime, only mutual adaptation, not allowed to be tired of each other.” What sounds terrible situation? - Couples. The vast majority of people, it is inevitable to do a lifetime husband or a lifetime wife. Like all other life’s unavoidable things, its rules are in fact very subtle and interesting. One of the rules of the couple is tacit agreement. For two people who must live together for a lifetime, if there is no tacit agreement that requires no words to convey their feelings, that life must have been imagined boring vulgarity. There is a story that shows such a mettle very carefully: late at night, a couple is asleep