对性的控制反映的是性别的统治关系,不仅仅是为了纯种的需要。虽然现在人们的性比之过去要自由,女性的性已不似从前,但在两性关系中性的控制与反控制还存在,因为有关我们自身建设的私领域的权力与习惯并非短时间内就能改变,性的控制权由于传统机制与观念的缘故,还在男性的手中。该文从男性对女性性控制这样一个角度,对中国各个朝代男性对女性的贞节要求看这种控制的程度,反思和批判传统文化中道德礼教的糟粕。 The control of sex reflects the domination of sex, not just for purebred needs. Although people’s sexuality is now more free than before, women’s sexuality is no longer the same as before. However, neutral control and counter-control in the relationship between the sexes exist because power and habits in the private sector concerning our own construction are not short-lived Changeable, sexual control is still in the hands of men due to traditional mechanisms and concepts. This paper, from the perspective of male sexual control of women, seeks to reflect on the degree of control over the male-female chastity of various dynasties in China and to reflect on and criticize the dilemma of morality and ethics in traditional culture.