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“嫉妒”心理是一种比较复杂的混合心理。从消极方面来讲,它可引起焦虑、恐惧、悲哀、猜疑、羞耻、自咎、消沉、憎恶、敌意、怨恨、报复等心理;从积极方面讲,“嫉妒”也可以使人奋进,成为一种拼搏向上的动力。嫉妒几乎人人都有过,或者说嫉妒每时每刻都在你的脑海中,只是有程度轻重的不同。此外还因每个人思想境界的不同,处理方法的不同而带来的效果不同。如何对待嫉妒心理?有的人看到别人进步自己也不甘心落后,以他人为榜样,把嫉妒变为动力,努力奋发向上,从而超过他人,做出更大的成绩。而有的则不然。对别人的优点和长处冷嘲热讽,恶意中伤,甚至产生伤害、杀人等攻击行为,做出损人不利己的事情。因此,如何将嫉妒心理引向正确的道路乃是值得研究的问题。
“Envy” psychology is a more complex mixed psychology. On the negative side, it can cause anxiety, fear, sadness, suspicion, shame, self-blame, depression, disgust, hostility, resentment, retaliation and other psychology. On the positive side, “jealousy” can also make people become aggressive Hard work and upward momentum. Jealousy Almost everyone has ever had, or jealousy is in your head every moment, only with a degree of severity. In addition, because each person’s different ideological realms, different ways to deal with different effects. How to deal with jealousy? Some people see others progress themselves not willing to fall behind, others as an example, the envy into a driving force, and strive to work hard, so as to surpass others and make greater achievements. While others are not. Cynicism about other people’s strengths and strengths, malicious vilification, and even attacks such as injuries and murders, and makes others who are not benefiting others. Therefore, how to lead the jealousy to the right path is a question worth studying.