最近,教育学家尖锐指出,如今我国的家庭教育从某种意义上说,是一种畸形的教育。何为畸形的教育呢?笔者认为,畸形的教育就是家长以不正常的心态,采用不规则的教育方式方法,对孩子施行教育,导致孩子的成长发展偏离正确的方向。畸形的教育主要表现在以下几个方面: 一、对孩子爱、严失度。爱孩子是父母的天性,严格要求孩子是父母的天职。然而,面对独 Recently, educators have pointedly pointed out: Today’s family education in our country is, in a sense, an abnormal education. What is abnormal education? I believe that the abnormal education is that parents with an abnormal attitude, the use of irregular methods of education, the implementation of education of children, leading children’s growth and development deviate from the right direction. Deformity of education mainly in the following areas: First, children love, loss of degrees. Love children is the nature of parents, strict requirements of the child is the bounden duty of parents. However, facing alone