没学过心理学的人,可能没接触过奥地利精神分析的创始人弗洛伊德的精神分析学说,弗洛伊德把人的发展划分为五个时期(也称为性发展阶段),即口欲期、肛欲期、性蕾期、潜伏期和青春期。他谈到前三个期是孩子人格形成的关键期,在这一段时间里,如果父母养育不好孩子,孩子就会出问题,更多的是心理问题,那健全人格就无从谈起了。如果孩子不能正常发展,问题多多,那是一件可怕的事情, Those who have not studied psychology may not have come into contact with the psychoanalytic theory of Freud, the founder of Austrian psychoanalysis, that Freud divided human development into five periods (also called stages of sexual development) Oral, anal, sexual buds, latency and adolescence. He mentioned that the first three periods are the key period for the formation of children’s personality. During this period, if the parents raise bad children, the child will have problems, more the psychological problems, and the healthy personality will not be able to talk about it. If the child can not be normal development, a lot of problems, it is a terrible thing,