还是孩提时候,我像所有的孩子一样,认为天底下只有解放军最好。每见到一位军人,我都要下意识地凑过去与他说上几句话或者多看上几眼,以求心理上的一种满足感。因为在我的心目中“雷锋叔叔”就是解放军,解放军就是“雷锋叔叔”。对此,这种对军人的崇拜一直影响到了我的婚姻生活。事遂人愿。那是我上大二时一个银装素裹的冬天,天上飘舞着雪花。我们俩经老师的介绍相识了。凭着对那身笔挺军装的神秘向往和对大檐帽上闪闪发亮的军徽的崇拜,我与他开始了交往。虽然一个身居在祖国的西北,一个在胶东半岛的海滨城市,但丝毫没有阻隔我俩的情感传递。于是,“纸鸢”在我俩之间传递了足够有两年多的时间。每当双方遇到困难时,彼此就相互帮助和鼓励;每当双方取得成绩 As a child, I, like all my children, think that there is only the People’s Liberation Army under the sun. Every time I see a soldier, I have to subconsciously get together in the past to say a few words or more glances, in order to find a psychological sense of satisfaction. Because in my mind “Uncle Lei Feng ” is the People’s Liberation Army, the PLA is Uncle Lei Feng . In this regard, this worship of soldiers has been affecting my marriage. Then people wish. That was when I was a sophomore winter wrapped in silver and the sky was dancing with snowflakes. We both met by the teacher’s introduction. With the mysterious longing for that straight-fitting military uniform and the admiration of the glittering emblem on the big-eyed hat, I started to interact with him. Although one lives in the northwest of the motherland and one in the seaside city of the Jiaodong Peninsula, it does not in the least impede our emotional transmission. So, “kite” passed between us for more than two years. Whenever both parties encounter difficulties, they help each other and encourage each other; whenever the two sides get results