也许早在读大学的时候,我就开始琢磨制定未来孩子的性格心理教育计划了。当我的女儿真的出生,瞧着她迅速成长,一如我幼年的模样:文静、敏感而内向。我原本不轻松的心又增了许多沉重。我生在一个经济条件不算坏的家庭,父母都有稳定的工作和收入,但父母的婚姻是包办的,彼此之间感情淡薄,又都是抑郁狂躁不会宽 Maybe as early as college, I began to ponder the development of future children’s personality psychology education program. When my daughter was really born, I watched her grow rapidly, just like my childhood: quiet, sensitive and introverted. I had a lot more heavy heart, my heart was not relaxed. I was born in a not bad economic conditions of the family, both parents have a stable job and income, but the marriage of parents is arranged, with each other’s weak feelings, are also depressed manic will not be wide