父母们都希望孩子听话、省心、好带。可这些小家伙们好像生来要和你作对似的,就是不听话!要么缠着你不放,要么对你不理不睬,要么任性淘气,要么使小伎俩来控制你……究竟什么原因让孩子不听话,这不听话的背后有什么动机?是孩子的错还是父母的错?笔者根据孩子的不听话行为,把它分为合理的“不听话”与不合理的“不听话”。请看—— Parents want their children obedient, peace of mind, good band. But these little guys seem to be born with you as the opposite, is not obedient! Or you haunt you, or ignore you, either capricious naughty, or trick to control you ... ... what are the reasons The children are not obedient, what are the motives behind this disobedient? Is the child’s fault or parent’s fault? According to the child’s disobedient behavior, the author divides it into reasonable “disobedience” and “unreasonable” disobedient ". Look -