背后议论别人是一种不良的习惯,对人对己都没好处。但在生活中,背后议论别人的现象并不少见。究其原因,通常是对一些事和人有看法,又没有勇气当面说出,不说又忍不住,于是采取背后议论的方式发表自己的意见,发泄不满。也有极少数的人,出于不可告人的目的,故意散布流言蜚语,混淆视听,中伤别人。 Talking about others behind them is a bad habit and it is not good for people. But in life, it is not uncommon to talk about the phenomenon of others. The reason is usually to have some views on things and people, and not have the courage to speak out in person, not to say, but also can not help, so take the views behind the way to express their opinions and vent their dissatisfaction. There are also very few people who, for ulterior motives, deliberately spread gossip, confuse and smuggle others.