董薇老师:你好!最近我和女儿、女婿发生了激烈冲突,感到很难过。事情的起因是他俩坚持要把刚满两岁的外孙送进幼儿园,还跟我说以后他们自己带孩子,让我回老家安度晚年。外孙从出生就是我一手带大的,到现在两岁了一天都没有离开过我,我女儿、女婿根本不懂得怎么照顾孩子。再说,孩子现在还这么小,基本的生活自理能力都不具备,送进幼儿园老师根本不可能像家里人照顾得那么精心,这不是让孩子受罪么?我也见过家里没有老人帮忙,自己带孩子的父母,孩子早早送进幼儿园,白天上班晚上回来还得带孩子做家务,不仅自己辛苦,孩子也跟 Dong Wei Teacher: Hello! Recently I was in a fierce conflict with my daughter and son-in-law and felt very sad. The cause of the incident was that both of them insisted on sending their two-year-old grandchildren to kindergarten, and told me that they later brought their own children so that I could return to my hometown for an advanced age. My grandchild was born with me, and I have never left my age of two years old. My daughter and son-in-law do not know how to take care of children. Moreover, the child is still so small, the basic ability to take care of themselves are not equipped to send kindergarten teachers simply can not take care of the family so carefully, this is not to let the children suffer? I have seen the elderly without help at home, with their own Children’s parents, children into kindergarten early, go back to work at night have to take children to do housework at night, not only their own hard, the children also