檀老师:我是再婚。家中的先生曾经背叛过我2次,可我不知道为什么原谅了他,也许因为再婚,也许感觉天下的男人都差不多吧。吵闹过后,我没有离婚,心理却变得非常不健康:他现在对我好,我也不会去感激,就感觉他欠我的;他对我不好,我就更觉得委屈,会联想起好多好多他的所作所为。最近变得烦躁,有摔东西的迹象,发泄完后又极度后悔,会对发泄过的物品道歉,您看我是不是得病了?我心里的结要怎么样才能解开?汪敏 Tan teacher: I am remarried. The gentleman at home has betrayed me twice, but I do not know why I forgave him, perhaps because of remarriage, perhaps the man of the world is similar to it. After noisy, I did not divorce, psychology has become very unhealthy: he is good to me now, I will not be grateful, I feel he owes me; he is not good to me, I even feel wronged, will think of a lot of A lot of what he did. Recently became irritable, there is signs of falling things, after venting and regretted, will apologize for the vented items, you see I was not sick? How can my heart knot to unlock? Wang Min