你可以说她为了爱情,勇敢地丢掉一切,你也可以骂她愚蠢,差点毁掉了自己的前程。“我不想”、“我不高兴”、“我不喜欢”……不是每个人都敢于把“不”说出口,或是挂在脸上的。为此,我们不知多少次地委屈自己,不顾自己的感受,直到有一天离快乐越来越远。或许,我们应该可以变得自私一点,像李小冉那样,清清楚楚地说一句:“不。”当一切都风轻云淡,再来看李小冉,其实她自己活得是舒服的。她曾经把自己比作熊猫,能不打起精神就不打起精神,能不挪窝就不挪窝。阳光充足的时候晒晒太阳,下雪的时候发发呆,其实也没什么不好的。生活是自己的,你有权支配自己的喜怒哀乐,这样你活着才不累。 You can say she lost everything for love, courageously, you can scold her stupid, almost destroyed his future. “I do not want to,” “I’m not happy,” “I do not like.” ... Not everyone dares to say “no” or hang on his face. For this reason, we do not know how many times to grieve ourselves, regardless of their feelings, until one day farther and farther away from happiness. Perhaps, we should be able to become selfish, like Li Xiaoran, clearly saying: “No. ” When everything is light and clear, then see Li Xiaoran, in fact, she is living comfortably. She used to be compared to himself as a panda, can not spirits do not play spirits, can not move without Nesting nest. Sunshine when the sun, when the hair in a daze, in fact, nothing bad. Life is your own, you have the right to dominate your emotions, so that you are not tired.