这是一件真实的事情:国内某著名高校的一位大学生,在考取出国留学的奖学金后,却因焦虑过度而精神失常。原来,他是家中独子,从小备受宠爱,衣来伸手,饭来张口,甚至上了大学。父母还要每周到学校去为他料理生活,一想到自己将要独自一人出国求学,无人照顾,他不知自己将如何生活,以至过于焦虑而失常。后来,这个大学生的父母对记者说了一句令人深思的话:“我们一心一意地爱他,凡事为他着想,谁知却害了他。” This is a real thing: a college student at a famous university in China, after obtaining a scholarship to study abroad, is mentally disturbed by over-anxiety. It turned out that he was the only child in his family, grew very much loved, clothing to reach out, rice to mouth, and even went to college. Parents also go to school every week to cook for his life, and think of himself going abroad to study alone, no one cares, he did not know how they will live, and even over-anxiety disorders. Later, the university student’s parents told the reporter a thought-provoking remark: “We love him wholeheartedly and think everything about him, who knows that it does harm him.”