一位女性朋友向我抱怨她男友不懂她,举的例子是她想吃冰激凌,对方却给她奶茶,我问:“你为什么不直接告诉他你要吃冰激凌呢?”她很理所当然地说:“这是他自己应该知道的啊,我喜欢吃什么,讨厌吃什么,他都应该记得一清二楚啊,还用我说。”我黑着脸继续问:“那你爸妈知道你喜欢吃什么讨厌吃什么吗?他们会在你想吃冰激凌的时候,递给你奶茶吗?”她也一脸的不屑说:“父母怎么能和男友比呢?如果我父母把所有的事情都做了,那还要男友干什么?” A female friend complained to me that her boyfriend did not know her. For example, she wanted to eat ice cream and the other gave her milk tea. I asked: “Why do not you tell him directly that you want to eat ice cream?” She took it for granted Said: “This is what he should know ah, I like what to eat, what to eat hate, he should remember clearly, and use me to say.” I continue to ask the black face: “Then you Parents know what you like to eat hate to eat anything? They will want you to eat ice cream, handed it to your milk? ”She also said disdain: “ How can parents and her boyfriend? If I Parents do all the things, then what else boyfriend do? ”