上了年纪的人总喜欢唠叨,这是可以理解的。随着工作、生活环境的改变,社交圈子缩小,许多老年人长时间禁锢在高楼中的水泥墙里,很容易产生失落感和孤独感。特别是大多数老年人又与子女分离独居,尤其是那些丧失生活能力的、躺在病榻上的、起居有困难的老年人,就更期望得到儿女的悉心照顾了。然而,有些子女与父母不在同一个城市,虽寄钱物给老年人,长期不在一起或者不能经常见面。有些子女虽与老年人共同生活,但却没有太多的精力去关心老年人。虽然老年人也明白孩子们的孝顺和无奈,可是失去天伦之乐的亲情常常会使他们萌生出一 Older people always like nagging, which is understandable. With the change of working and living environment, the social circle shrinks. Many elderly people are detained for a long time in the concrete walls in the tall buildings, which easily lead to feelings of loss and loneliness. In particular, most elderly people living alone and separated from their children, especially those who are inaccessible living on their sick beds, have difficulties in their daily lives, and they even expect their children to take good care of them. However, some children do not live in the same city as their parents, send money to the elderly for long periods of time or can not meet frequently. Although some children live with the elderly, they do not have much energy to care for the elderly. Although the elderly also understand the children’s filial piety and helplessness, but lost family affection often give birth to a