一个会生活的人,应该懂点美学。美会让优秀成为一种你的独具特征和气质。美是一种直觉,也是一种女性不分年龄、不分环境都要拥有的能力。没有人能通晓生命的各种安排和际遇,但可以靠自己掌控情绪去改变它们。就好像在一枚叶子落下来之前,要懂得与世无争,懂得适时出手,但更要懂得来去自如。悲伤深处空无一物,是因为只要你想,就可以将这些负面的情绪转换。你首先要知晓“存在”都是合理的,但时光的悲伤,不是时光的,也不是水的,只是那些流过去的、昨天的。只要你想,虚妄和怨恨暗地里也会有了和解之心。只要你想,行至荒岛,悲伤的人看到顽石,而喜悦的人则是因为看到了顽石缝隙中的青草。再没有什么比这样的发现更难能可贵。恰如飞鸟之高远,大多不是为了趋暖而避寒,有谁说它们不是因为心存梦想,而舍弃了巢穴地,选择了这风雨无阻的一路旅行呢? A person who lives, you should know some aesthetics. Beauty will make excellence to be your unique character and temperament. Beauty is an intuition and a woman’s ability to live regardless of age. No one can be familiar with the various arrangements and circumstances of life, but you can change the mood by yourself. Just as before a leaf falls, it is necessary to know how to compete with the world and know how to get it done in time. The depths of sadness are empty, because whenever you want, you can convert these negative emotions. You first have to know that “existence” is reasonable, but the sadness of time is not a matter of time, nor of water, but of those who passed, yesterday. As long as you think, vanity and resentment will also have a heart of reconciliation. As long as you want to go to desert island, sad people see the rock, but the joy is because people see the crack in the cracks of the grass. Nothing is more commendable than such a discovery. Just as lofty as lofty birds, most of them are not to keep warm and avoid the cold, who says they are not because of their dreams, and abandoned the nest to choose this rain-free all the way to travel?