人,自出生,似乎就开始了“人际关系”的建立。有天生已定的,像父母、手足、亲戚;有后来滋生的,如师生、朋友、同学、同事、邻居……交有深浅,情有浓淡,总归是人与人之间的一份“缘”。同舟共济,照佛家的说法,都是五百年修来的,那相逢、相识、相交、相契、相知、相亲、相爱呢? 可是,许多最“有缘”的人,却因日日相处,反而忽略了人际间应有的尊重与包容。于是,父母子女之间,产生了代沟,同胞手足间,阋墙相争;夫妻之间,有了怨怼……也有许多“有缘”的人,在时间的流程里,空间的阻隔中,由浓而淡,终至于无;更 Since birth, people, it seems, started the establishment of “relationships”. Have a natural set, like parents, brothers and sisters, relatives; later breeding, such as teachers and students, friends, classmates, colleagues, neighbors ... ... to pay a depth, feeling shades, always a copy of the interpersonal “edge”. The same boat, according to the Buddhist saying, are five hundred years repaired, that meet, acquaintance, intersection, mutual understanding, mutual knowledge, blind date, love it? However, many of the most “destined” people, but due to day Get along, but ignore the respect and tolerance that people should have. So, between parents and children, generation of generation gap, compatriots between the hands and feet, the wall against the wall; between husband and wife, with grudges ... ... There are many “destined ” people in the flow of time, the barrier of space, From thick and light, finally no; more