任性是幼儿普遍存在的问题。如果我们放任幼儿的任性,将会影响他们的人际交往,因为任性的幼儿很难与同伴友好合作、分享、协商、他们往往随心所欲,很难作出利他(如关心、谦让、助人、同情等)的行为。幼儿任性还会影响成人、同伴对他们的评价,并由此影响他们自我意识的发展。任性的孩子通常借助在地上打滚、不停地哭闹、乱扔东西等行为来表现他们的 Self-willed is a common problem for young children. If we let go of young children’s self-willedness, it will affect their interpersonal relationships. Because wayward children find it hard to cooperate, share and negotiate with their peers, they often find it hard to be altruistic (eg caring, modest, helpful, sympathetic, etc.) behavior. Self-motivated children will also affect adults, companions to their evaluation, and thus affect their development of self-awareness. Self-willed children often use the ground rolling, crying constantly, littering and other acts to show their