人们在言语交际中,要圆满地解释交际中出现的各种复杂现象,应遵循得体原则,《红楼梦》中的凤姐是说话得体的一个典型代表。她的语言得体主要表现在她说话有礼貌、好幽默、能克制上。因为她语言得体,所以深得贾府的最高统治者贾母的喜爱,使她独揽贾府大权,为所欲为,为自己赢得了最大的利益。 In verbal communication, people should satisfactorily explain all kinds of complicated phenomena appearing in communication, and should follow the principle of decency. Xifeng in A Dream of Red Mansions is a typical representative of speech. Her decency is mainly manifested in her politeness, good sense of humor, restraint. Because of her graceful language, she was loved by Jia Mu, the supreme ruler of Jia, and took over the power of the government of Jia and won her own best interests.