【案例】南,我们班的化学课代表,头脑聪明,课外知识丰富,精通电脑,极爱面子,但不属于那种清澈透亮、一眼就可以看穿其心底的孩子。对他,我总是不能发自内心的喜欢和欣赏。开学初时,有一天我去男生宿舍,管理员向我反映了一件事——南不遵守纪律:有时熄灯后说话,有时打着手电看书,并且还和管理员顶过嘴。我听后很生气,当即来到班上把南 [Case] ​​South, our class chemistry class representative, intelligent, extra-curricular knowledgeable, proficient in computers, very love face, but not the kind of clear and translucent, one can see through the hearts of children. For him, I always can not express my heart like and appreciate. At the beginning of the school year, I went to the boys’ dormitory one day. The administrator reflected one thing to me - South did not observe discipline: sometimes after turning off the lights, sometimes reading a flashlight and reading the bulletin board with the administrator. After I heard very angry, immediately came to the class to the south