《儿子与情人》是英国才子作家劳伦斯的一部自传体式小说,该小说通过对主人公保罗与其母亲莫雷尔夫人,以及女友克拉拉和米利安三人之间的感情纠葛的具体描述,向读者展示了一个特殊的恋母故事。小说中,保罗受到畸形母爱的影响,深爱着自己的母亲莫雷尔夫人,由此导致了对父亲的憎恨,并且使自己失去了爱其他人的能力。莫雷尔夫人的恋子情结直接强化了保罗的恋母情结。莫雷尔夫人的精神追求无法从丈夫的身上得到满足,加之生活的不如意和大儿子的去世,致使其将所有的爱和希望寄托在小儿子保 The son and the lover is an autobiographical novel by English writer Lawrence Lawrence. Through a detailed description of the emotional entanglements between the protagonist Paul and his mother, Morel, and his girlfriends, Clara and Milian, Demonstrated a special Oedipus story. In the novel, Paul, influenced by her maternal affection, loves her mother, Mrs. Morel, and thereby leads to a hatred of her father and loses her ability to love others. Mrs. Morel’s lover complex directly reinforces Paul’s Oedipus complex. Mrs. Morrel’s spiritual pursuit can not be satisfied from her husband, coupled with the unhappy life and the death of her eldest son, resulting in all of his love and hope pinned on the young son Paul