家庭是孩子成长的摇篮,父母是孩子的第一任老师。家长的言谈举止,启迪和滋养着孩子的童年,指引和督促着孩子的青少年时期,影响孩子的一生。早在20世纪30年代,教育家陈鹤琴就在《怎样做父母》一文中指出,人们是要在做父母之前先学习抚养、教育子女的知识的,也就是说如同孩子需要教育一样,父母也不是天生就能胜任的父母应该接受系统的专业训练才能为人父母。事实上,很多家长的确是用自己的情感和智慧引导孩子走向了成功之路,但我们同时也看到许多家长由于不具备正确的家庭教育观念,没有掌握有效的家庭教养技能,导致了在亲子教育中存在一定程度的盲目性,不能为孩子的成长提供一个最优化的家庭生 Family is the cradle of children’s growth, parents are children’s first teacher. Parents talk and behave, inspire and nourish their children’s childhood, guide and urge their children’s adolescence, affect the child’s life. As early as the 1930s, educator Chen Heqin pointed out in his article “What to do as a Parents,” people should learn to raise and educate their children before they become parents. That is to say, as the children need education, their parents are not Naturally competent parents should receive systematic professional training to be parents. In fact, many parents really use their emotions and wisdom to guide their children to success. However, we also find that many parents, who do not have the correct concept of family education and do not have effective family rearing skills, There is a certain degree of blindness in education that can not provide an optimal family life for children’s growth