美国心理学家把拒绝孩子的某些要求,也就是英文的“NO”(不)当作“维生素N”来看待。心理学家认为家长为了维护孩子的自尊,尽可能地满足孩子的要求,是对孩子非常不利的。专家建议家长要常给孩子补充“维生素N”,不过“维生素”补得过多,补得方法过于生硬同样对孩子不利。就让我 American psychologists treat some of the child’s refusal requirements, that is, English “NO” (not) as “vitamin N.” Psychologists believe that parents in order to maintain the child’s self-esteem, as much as possible to meet the requirements of children, is very detrimental to children. Experts suggest that parents should often give their children to supplement “vitamin N”, but “vitamin” too much, too hard to make up the same way to children adverse. Let me