孩子刚满1岁时,年轻父母们或许没有意识到管教的问题,只知道孩子饿了给他吃,渴了给他喝,脏了给他洗。实际上,这些已是父母们对自己的小宝宝进行有意识的训练了。当然,抚育孩子不会这样简单,尤其是对1岁多点的小不点儿,有好多细致的事儿待父母去妥善处理。大致说来,和这个阶段孩子相处的重点,不是要他怎样地服从你,而是要先估量他的生理心理能力达到了什么程度,能做多少,这样,你的要求才是孩子力所能及的。下面这几条建议,年轻父母们不妨试试看。1.巧妙地转移他的注意力这阶段的孩子语言能力很差,许多日常用语还不 At just 1 year old, the young parents may not be aware of the problem of discipline. They only know that the child is hungry for him to eat, thirsty for him to drink, dirty for him to wash. In fact, these are the parents who have consciously trained their little ones. Of course, raising children will not be as simple as possible, especially for a little more than 1 year old, with a lot of meticulous things to be properly handled by parents. Generally speaking, the key point of getting along with the children at this stage is not how to obey you. Instead, you should first measure how much his physical and mental ability has been achieved and how much you can do so your request is within the reach of your child. Here are a few suggestions, young parents may wish to give it a try. 1. Cleverly divert his attention At this stage the child’s language skills are poor, many everyday words not yet