我国在校的中学生绝大多数为独生子女 ,他们缺乏独立生活能力段炼 ,缺乏坚强意志的培养 ,缺乏吃苦耐劳、协作精神尝试和承受挫折能力的锻炼 ,这些问题若得不到良好解决 ,不仅不利于学生的健康成长 ,还会使学生出现行为障碍或人格缺陷。他们的健康成长 ,不仅需要一个和谐、宽松 The vast majority of secondary school students in our country are only children, lack of independent living skills, lack of strong will training, lack of hard-working, collaborative attempts and ability to withstand setbacks, these problems can not be properly resolved, not only Not conducive to the healthy growth of students, but also make students appear behavioral disorders or personality defects. Their healthy growth requires not only a harmonious and relaxed