从女儿升入初一住校的那天起,我就一直在思索:女儿不仅长得漂亮,学习也比较出色,从小到大都是在众人的夸奖声中长大的。进入青春期的孩子将不可避免地面临情感的困惑,我该用什么方式来和女儿交流,既不伤害女儿的自尊,又能让她安全地度过青春期呢?在看电视剧《小留学生》时,剧中的一句台词给了我很大的启发。我想我该和女儿提前进行这方面的交流,防患于未然。 From the day my daughter moved into her first school, I kept thinking: My daughter not only looks beautiful, but also studies very well. From her childhood to her age, she grew up in her compliment. Adolescent children will inevitably face the emotional confusion, what should I use to communicate with her daughter, not to harm her daughter’s self-esteem, but also allow her to spend her adolescence safe? In the TV series “Little Students” A line in the play gave me a great inspiration. I think I should communicate with my daughter in advance in this area, take preventive measures.