我曾参加一个幼儿美术班的活动。在美术班里,许多家长为使孩子学有成效,往往请假或调休,陪同孩子学习。在我前面就坐着一位做父亲的。可是,这位父亲一发现孩子画得不合其意,就立即训斥,有时则毫不留情地在孩子头上敲“栗子”。他的训斥使我心绪不宁,他的“栗子”就象敲在找的头上,使我心惊肉跳。我的心情尚且如此,孩子的心情可想而知!这位父亲自以为是为孩子好,殊不知这正损害了孩子身心的健康发展。父亲的“栗子”把孩子原本只要集中在画面上 I have participated in a children’s art class activities. In art classes, many parents often take time off or leave school to accompany their children in order to make their children learn effectively. In front of me sitting a father. However, as soon as the father discovered that his child had painted so badly, he immediately denounced it, sometimes mercilessly knocking “chestnuts” on the child’s head. His rebuke made me feel restless, his “chestnuts” as knocking on the head, making me scared. My feelings are the same, the child’s mood can be imagined! The father is self-righteous for children, but do not know this is undermining the healthy development of children’s physical and mental health. Father’s “chestnuts” put the children originally just focus on the screen