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父母都希望自己的孩子有一个幸福的人生。但许多父母却由此而陷入教育的误区之中:有的自己省吃俭用,把钱都花在孩子身上,他们以为满足孩子的需求就会给孩子带来幸福;有的为后代造房置产,以为留下万贯家财就是给了孩子幸福;有的望子成龙,逼着孩子学这学那,以为让孩子出人头地就会使孩子拥有幸福。……不错,满足需求,拥有财富、知识和地位,这些都是一个人生活幸福的必要条件,但决不是幸福本身。幸福不是及时行乐,而是对有意义人生的追求过程;幸福不是单纯物欲的满足,而是积极生活的整体状态;更重要的是,幸福不是别人所能给予的某种条件,而是一个人对于自己生活的主观感受。这也就是为什
Parents want their children to have a happy life. But many parents are thus caught in the misunderstanding of education: some live frugally, spend money on their children, they think they will bring happiness to their children’s needs, and some will create a house for future generations Production, thinking that leaving a thousand family wealth is to give the child happiness; some Succeed, forcing children to learn this, that the child will make the child a leader will have happiness. ... Good, satisfying needs, possessing wealth, knowledge, and status are all necessary conditions for the well-being of one’s life, but not by itself. Happiness is not a pleasure to live in time, but a process of pursuing meaningful life. Happiness is not a mere materialistic satisfaction, but an overall state of active life. More importantly, happiness is not a condition that others can give, but a person Subjective feelings about your life. This is why