西木: 你的一番滔滔雄辩击碎了我的许多俗见,既给我警醒,又给我信心。确如你所说,男女之间的友情空间与男人或女人之间的友情空间并无本质差异,性别因素并不从根本上构成友情的障碍。 男女之间除了纯粹的欲望牵引之外,还有许多值得相互欣赏、相互吸引从而相互关注的东西——它们完全可以不导致爱恋而体现为友情,但这在事实上很难是同一回事。 Nishiki: Some of you surreptitiously crushed many of my commonplace, giving me wake up, give me confidence. As you have said, there is no essential difference between the space of friendship between men and women and the space of friendship between men and women. Gender does not fundamentally constitute an obstacle to friendship. In addition to the sheer desire for traction between men and women, there are many things that deserve mutual appreciation, mutual attraction, and mutual concern - they can manifest themselves in friendship without causing love, but this is hardly the same thing in fact.