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上一篇,我们谈了创业者;这一篇,我们来谈谈爱与权力。最近有位搞企业的弟子带着她女儿来看我,也不知怎么开始的,从头到尾这个妈妈都在教育她的女儿——说她花钱大手大脚,说她对男友娇蛮霸道,说她跟同事相处问题多多——那女儿就很尴尬地在旁边站着,默默聆听。我突然发现,似乎很多家庭都有这样的情形——家里的长辈会以爱的名义教育子女,表面上是在教育,其实是在抱怨。这种抱怨的结论是:你让父母很焦虑。
On the previous article, we talked about the entrepreneurs; this one, we talk about love and power. Recently, a business-minded disciple came to see her with her daughter and did not know how to get started. The mother, from start to finish, was educating her daughter - saying that she was over-spending and that she was overbearing with her boyfriend and said she Get along with your colleagues a lot of problems - the daughter is very awkward standing beside, listening silently. Suddenly I found out that it seems that in many families there are situations in which elders in the family will educate their children in the name of love, ostensibly in education and in fact complain. The conclusion of this complaint is: You make your parents very anxious.