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许多家长认为,家庭教育是家长教育孩子,潜台词是,家长是成熟的,孩子是幼稚的;家长是高明的,孩子是不高明的;家长是正确的,孩子是不那么正确的,甚至是错误的。无疑,这是一个要命的误区。如果有一台神奇的机器,帮助家长了解孩子的内心想法,家长一定会大吃一惊,有些方面,孩子比家长成熟得多,也高明得多。作为父亲,著名作家叶兆言对此深有体会。作为叶圣陶的孙子和叶至诚的儿子,叶兆言秉承严谨、低调的家风,对女儿叶子要求很严格,但叶子并不买账,经常跟爸爸对着干,所以父女俩的关系不那么融洽。
Many parents think that family education is the parent education of children, the subtext is that parents are mature, the child is childish; parents are clever, the child is not clever; parents are correct, the child is not so correct or even a mistake of. No doubt, this is a terrible mistake. If you have a magical machine to help parents understand their children's inner thoughts, parents will be surprised. In some ways, children are much more mature and smarter than parents. As a father, well-known writer Yezhao Yan deeply understand this. As Ye Shengtao's grandson and Ye Zhicheng's son, Ye Zhaoyan adhering to the rigorous, low-key family style, very strict requirements of her daughter leaves, but leaves do not buy it, often with the father to do, so the relationship between father and daughter is not so harmonious.