烦恼:好朋友不但成绩比我好,人缘也比我好,我很嫉妒他,甚至都不愿理他了。我知道这样是不对的,我该怎么办呀?老师:嫉妒也是人的正常心理,但要有度,先给你讲个故事吧。1战国时期,孙膑(bìn)与庞涓一起拜鬼谷子为师学习兵法。同学期间,两人情谊深厚,结拜为兄弟。2有一年,当听到魏国以优厚待招纳天下贤才时,庞涓坐不住了,定下山谋求富贵。而孙膑则觉得己学业未成,还想进一步深造。3庞涓受到魏王重用,当上了兵马大元帅,带兵打仗连连得胜,声威越来越大。庞涓自己也越来越骄傲。这期间,孙膑在山里潜心学习,本领渐渐超过了庞涓。 Worries: good friends not only better than me, popularity is better than me, I am jealous of him, do not even want him. I know this is wrong, what should I do? Teacher: Jealousy is also the normal psychology of a man, but to have degree, tell you a story first. During the Warring States period, Sun Yat-sen (bìn) and Pang Juan together ghost millet as a division to learn war art. During the classmate, the friendship between the two was profound and sworn to be brothers. 2 One year, when we heard that Wei was honored to recruit talents from all over the world, Pang Juan could not stand it and decided to go downhill to seek wealth. Sun Yat-sen then felt unsuccessful studies, but also want to further their studies. 3 Pang Juan by the Wei Wang re-use, became the commander of the military marshals, troops fighting repeatedly victorious, growing reputation. Pang Juan himself more and more proud. During this period, Sun 潜 devoted himself to learning in the mountains, gradually surpassing Pang Juan.