孩子犯错了,家长未免会气急败坏地冒出一连串质问。但孩子大脑发育还不完善,信息量太大,反而会让他们无所适从,再加上看到父母愤怒的脸色心里害怕,更说不出话来。所以,在孩子闯祸后,可以先问他8个问题,有助于帮孩子自己解决问题。我们不妨假设一个场景:冬冬跟表弟在爷爷的卧室玩耍,突然传来一声响。冬冬爸爸冲进来,看到爷爷的紫砂壶摔到地上了,两个孩子面面相觑地站在那里。 Children make mistakes, parents will inevitably emerge a series of questions. However, children’s brain development is not perfect, the amount of information is too large, but will make them know what to do, coupled with the fear of their parents to see the angry face, but can not speak. Therefore, after a child is in trouble, you can ask him eight questions and help the child solve the problem on his own. We might as well assume a scene: Winter winter cousin playing in Grandpa’s bedroom, suddenly came a sound. Winter and winter dad rushed in, saw Grandpa’s teapot fell to the ground, and two children standing face to face.