编辑同志:我的孩子今年5岁,他的玩伴很多,当然也就免不了经常有被人欺负了哭着跑回家告状的事情发生,请问,我们当家长的应如何正确处理这类问题?黑龙江凌磊凌磊同志:当自己的孩子与小伙伴发生争吵,尤其是在被对方欺负之后,做父母的首先要保持冷静态度,并要及时做好孩子的工作,让他从激动中平静下来。有的父母看到自己的孩子挨打吃亏后,大光其火,拉着孩子 Editor’s Comrade: My child is 5 years old this year, he’s a lot of playmates, of course, will inevitably have been bullied crying ran home complain about what happened, may I ask, we should be parents should be how to deal with such issues correctly? Ling Lei, Heilongjiang Comrade Ling Lei: When their children and small partners quarrel, especially after being bullied by each other, parents must first be calm and do a good job in a timely manner to make him calm down from the excitement . Some parents saw their children suffer beatings, the flood, pulling the child