人都是有自尊心的,被冒犯的时候,免不了情绪膨胀,小而至于日常小事,大而至于国事访问时遭遇不礼貌等等。但是一个富于幽默感的人和一般人的根本不同在于,在关键时刻,不但要把自己而且要把别人从情绪膨胀中解放出来,也就是说,懂得给别人一个台阶。公共汽车上,有人推搡了你,如果 People are self-respected. When they are offended, they will inevitably inflate their emotions. They are small and they have small daily routines. They are often too impolite for their state visits. But the fundamental difference between a person with a good sense of humour and the average person is that at the crucial moment, not only oneself but also others should be liberated from the expansion of emotions, that is, they should know how to give others a step. Someone on the bus pushed you, if