“做妈妈最快乐的事情就是自己的宝宝懂事乖巧。”可可妈总是这样跟周围的人说。女儿可可1岁7个月了,在妈妈眼里,她是这个世界上最善解人意的小天使。忽闪的大眼睛,似乎总能明白大人的意思,一副“人小鬼大”的样子。瞧,她又将她正在喝的牛奶递给来看他的叔叔,请他一起来分享美味,惹得周围的人哈哈大笑。“这孩子,真是大方。”可是,最近,这样的赞扬声越来越少。可可变得越来越小气。自己的东西也不愿意和别人分享,甚至不许别人碰她的食物、玩具。一旦做了违背她心愿的事情,她誓将哭闹进行到底。这孩子是怎么了?怎么越来越抠门了?平时在这方面的教育也是以“礼让”为准则,怎么效果反而适得其反呢?可可妈百思不得其解。 “The happiest thing to do for a mother is that her baby is well-behaved,” Coco Ma always said to the people around her. Daughter Coco 1 year and 7 months old, in the eyes of his mother, she is the world’s most considerate little angel. Blinking big eyes, always seems to understand the meaning of adults, a “big man” appearance. Look, she gave her the milk she was drinking again to see his uncle, invited him to share the delicious, prompting the people around laughed. “This kid, it’s generous.” However, recently there has been less and less acclaim. Cocoa becomes more and more stingy. Their own things are not willing to share with others, and even allowed others to touch her food, toys. Once done contrary to her wishes, she vowed to cry in the end. How is this child? How more and more stingy? Usually in this area of ​​education is based on “courteous” as a criterion, how the effect is counterproductive? Cocoa baffled.