男孩要有点尚武的精神为好。不是好勇斗狠,而是在面对挑战和危机时要有勇气,哪怕对方比自己强大,也要有能力维护自己的尊严。我儿子小时候,手指头特别长,见了的都说是学钢琴的好材料,我们就和他商量要不要学钢琴。儿子坚决不从,靠逼迫终归不是办法,只好放弃了。后来朋友办书法班,我们动员儿子去跟着学,学了两节课,恰好感冒,爷爷疼孙子,就说等好了再去吧,结果就再也没 The boy wants a little bit of martial spirit as well. Not courageous and courageous, but in the face of challenges and crises courage, even if the other is stronger than ourselves, but also have the ability to defend their dignity. When my son was a child, his fingers were so long. When he met he said that he was a good material to learn the piano. We would discuss with him whether we should learn the piano or not. My son is determined not to rely on persecution after all is not a solution, had to give up. Later, a friend of calligraphy classes, we mobilize his son to follow the learning, learning two classes, just a cold, grandfather painful grandson, say good wait and go go, the result never