在公园、街道、小区内经常看到有些孩子在家长没有满足他的欲望时大声哭闹、在地上打滚,或撕扯自己的头发、衣服,或抱着成人的腿赖着不走。这些行为称为“暴怒发作”。暴怒发作中的孩子往往不听劝阻,除非成人满足他们的要求,否则会僵持下去。案例一杨女士最近有这样的苦恼:儿子3岁时,丈夫被派往外地工作,我因为工作繁忙,就把儿子送往乡下的婆婆家。一年后,我把儿子接回身边。谁知,儿子不但对我产生抵触情绪, In parks, streets and neighborhoods, it is common to see some children cry loudly when parents fail to meet his desires, roll on the ground, tear their hair, dress, or hold adult legs. These actions are called “rage”. Children in a rage often do not listen to discouragement, and unless adults meet their requirements, they will stalemate. Ms. Yang has a recent case of distress: when her son was 3 years old, her husband was sent to work outside the country. Because of her busy schedule, I took my son to the mother-in-law’s house in the country. A year later, I took my son back. Surprisingly, my son not only gave me resistance,