孩子吵架是讨父母嫌的,通常都以受训斥甚至挨揍而告终。其实,孩子在一起玩耍,吵架是免不了的。幼儿在心理上往往以自己为中心,不了解别人的心理和感受,不容易接纳别人的意见,正是通过争辩、说理、吵架逐步了解别人心中陌生的世界,了解自己与别人的感受,从中学习忍让、宽容、适应别人。孩子一般不会像大人一样因利益冲突而记恨对方,他们冲突后可以马上和好。因此。家长听到孩子吵架,大可不必那么惊恐,更不可把成人间的不快带进对孩子吵架的“调停”干涉之 Children quarrel is to discuss suspicion of parents, usually to be reprimanded or even beaten and ended. In fact, children playing together, quarrel is inevitable. Children often take themselves as the center psychologically, do not understand other people’s feelings and feelings, not easy to accept the opinions of others, it is through debate, reason, quarrel gradually understand the hearts of strangers in the world, to understand their feelings with others and learn from them Forbearance, tolerance, adapt to others. Children generally do not remember each other because of conflicts of interest as adults, and they can reconcile immediately after the conflict. therefore. Parents do not have to be so scared to hear the child quarrel, not to bring the unpleasantness of adults into the “mediation” of quarrels with their children.