让自立代替溺爱老人带孙辈多是尽心竭力,唯恐孩子受一点委屈,常常会把孩子的一切都安排得妥妥当当。比如,孩子不爱吃饭,老人就拿着饭碗满屋子追着喂;孩子挑食,老人就只做他们爱吃的食物;孩子出门,衣帽鞋袜都由老人穿戴整齐。结果,许多学龄前儿童缺乏自理能力,对劳动没有认识,意志品质得不到锻炼,在之后的学习和生活中面对困难、解决问题的能力堪忧。所以,建议年轻父母尽 Let self-reliance instead of doting the elderly with grandchildren is dedication, lest the child be a little grieved, and often the child’s arrangements are properly handled. For example, the children do not like to eat, the elderly take a job full house chasing the feeding; children picky eaters, the elderly only to do their favorite food; children go out, clothing and footwear are worn by the elderly neatly. As a result, many preschool children lack the ability to take care of themselves, have no understanding of labor, lack of exercise of their will and quality, and face difficulties and problems in their studies and daily lives. Therefore, it is recommended that young parents do