《诗经·关雎》的第四章和第五章，有的人认为是写小伙子彻夜不眠时间生的幻想，清人姚际恒则说此两章是借“荇菜”既得而“采之”、“之”，以兴淑女既得而“友之”、“乐之”。细想起来，这两种说法，均有不合诗意的地方。第一章借雎鸠友情和鸣、呼唤伴侣为兴，喻成年“君子”（或“淑女”? In the fourth and fifth chapters of The Book of Songs, Guan Yu, some people think that it is an illusion to write a young man to sleepless nights. The Qing Ren Yao Jiheng said that these two chapters are borrowed from the “Leicai” and acquired. The “”, “ ” to have married ladies and “friends ”, “music”. In retrospect, both of these arguments are unspoken. In the first chapter, I use friendship and friendship, and call my partner as Xing, and metaphorizes the “gentleman” (or “lady”)?