邻里不睦、夫妻不和、同事不谐等都会使人陷入感情沼泽,使你悲伤、痛苦、气愤甚至憎恨。被人曲解和伤害,本能的反应就是报复。报复虽能发泄怒气,减轻心中的负荷而痛快一时,但会激化矛盾,步入“冤冤相报何时了”的境地。要避免误入“歧途”,或走出困境,最佳、最明智的做法是—— Harmful neighborhoods, disagreements between husband and wife, displeasure from colleagues and others all make people fall into feelings of marsh, making you sad, painful, angry and even hateful. Be misunderstood and hurt, instinctive reaction is revenge. Although retaliation can vent anger, reduce the burden on the heart and happy for a while, but will intensify the contradictions, entered the “time of retribution,” the situation. The best and the most sensible thing to do to avoid going astray or getting out of the woods is -