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何谓“维生素N”?美国心理学家罗博士把拒绝、否定孩子的某些要求,即英语中的NO——“不”称为“维生素N”。不少家长对独生子女的爱总是“有求必应”、“百依百顺”。他们认为,尽可能满足孩子的要求,是给孩子“面子”,不伤害其自尊心,失望和挫折不利于孩子自尊的培养。其实,这些观点都是很错误的。殊不知,缺乏“维生素N”的孩子,会有许多难以预料的毛
What is “vitamin N”? American psychologist Dr. Lo refused to reject some of the children’s requirements, that is NO in English - “no” as “vitamin N.” Many parents love the only child is always “responsive” and “obedient.” They believe that as much as possible to meet the requirements of children, is to give children “face”, do not hurt their self-esteem, disappointment and frustration is not conducive to the cultivation of children’s self-esteem. In fact, these views are very wrong. As everyone knows, the lack of “vitamin N” children, there will be many unpredictable hair