我与老婆相识是从交笔友开始的。当初,我喜欢写诗歌,她喜欢写散文,我俩的文章经常在同一家报纸上发表。当时,在发表作品的下方会附上作者的联系方式,由于对她的欣赏,我就写了一封想交笔友的信,没想到很快收到回复。原来,她对我的文章也蛮有印象。就这样,我们之间开始鸿雁传书,从最初的谈论写作渐渐发展成谈情说爱。要说写信,尤其是写情书,的确是个费脑子的活儿。如果说之前作为笔友时的书信往来只是谈谈读书和写作的感想,那完全不用太多考虑。而当与她确立了恋爱关系之后,我就要在每一封情书中绞尽脑汁填满甜言蜜语和赞美颂扬。既要说得她爱听,又要说得很靠谱。不然,我若浮夸,便是阴天,她准保在回信中对我的每一句话进行推敲。若我说的与她的实 My acquaintance with my wife started with pen pal. At first, I like to write poetry, she likes to write essays, and both of my articles are often published in the same newspaper. At that time, the author’s contact information was attached at the bottom of the published works. Because of her appreciation, I wrote a letter I wanted to write a pen pal and did not expect to receive a reply soon. It turned out she was quite impressed with my essay. In this way, we began to send geese messengers, from the initial discussion of writing gradually developed into love and talk. To write a letter, especially to write a love letter, is indeed a feeble child. If the previous correspondence as a pen pal was only a reflection of the thoughts of reading and writing, it would not have been too much consideration. And when I have established a relationship with her, I will try my best to fill my heart with sweet words and praise in every love letter. Necessary to say she likes to listen, but also to put it very reliable. Otherwise, if I am exaggerated, it would be cloudy. She assured me in my reply to each of my comments. If I say with her reality