我们的“老师”就是我们遇到过的那些爱别人的人。值得庆幸的是如果我们愿意付出时间、精力和实践,爱可以在我们生活的任何时刻学到手。那是在我成为南加利福尼亚大学教育学助理教授的头一天。我忐忑不安地走进教室,带着尴尬的微笑向学生们简短地问好。但那么一大班学生谁也不作声。我一下子慌了,手忙脚乱地翻了一会儿我的那些卡片,然后结结 Our “teacher” is someone we love who we meet. Thankfully, love can learn at any moment in our lives if we are willing to spend time, energy and practice. That was the day after I became an assistant professor of pedagogy at the University of Southern California. I walked uneasily into the classroom, greeting the students briefly with an awkward smile. But then a large class of students who are not making any noise. I suddenly panicked, scrambled for a moment my cards, and then knot