学者黄海瀛认为,目前大学生对婚前性行为的接受度呈现越来越高的趋势,但一般认为性伴侣只可以是自己爱的人,“性”和“爱”是不能分开的。尤其是不少女大学生,希望自己为之献身的人是丈夫,这明显是与中国人传统“从一而终”的思想有关。 Scholar Huang Haiying believes that the current college students’ acceptance of premarital sex is showing a tendency of getting higher and higher, but it is generally considered that sexual partners can only be loved ones and that ’sex’ and ’love’ can not be separated . In particular, many female university graduates and those who wish to dedicate themselves to it are husbands. This is clearly related to the Chinese tradition of “one time and one end”.