一些父母只需很短的时间就能完成身份的改变,就能放弃娱乐,从家务、社交或者工作中抽出时间陪伴孩子。但有些人习惯于做些如开会、写信、做销售等富有成果的事,或者做家务效率很高。如果一个下午都让她陪着孩子,而不去熨衬衣或做一顿美餐,她会感到没精打采或者歉疚。但你必须抛开这些,因为你在培育一个小生灵,他是世上惟一完全依赖你,才能懂得欢笑、学习和爱心的人。没有比这更值得你做的事了。 Some parents take only a short time to complete the change of identity, they can give up entertainment, take time out from housework, social or work to accompany their children. But some people are accustomed to doing fruitful things such as meetings, writing letters, doing sales, or doing housework very efficiently. If she gets her child with one afternoon without ironing a shirt or making a good meal, she feels sloppy or apathetic. But you have to put aside this because you are nurturing a creature who is the only person in the world who is totally dependent on you to know how to laugh, learn and love. There is nothing more worth doing than you do.