抗挫能力弱,谁的错?从大孩子遭遇不如意动不动就离家出走,甚至跳楼自杀,到小孩子一点点需求得不到满足就情绪激动,长时间陷入负面情绪中难以自拔,安抚无效,越来越多的孩子就像温室里的花朵,抗挫能力“简直弱爆了”。不禁让我们陷入了深深的思考:孩子抗挫能力弱,究竟是谁的错?在这样一个普遍抗挫能力弱的大环境下,为什么也有一部分孩子抗挫能力很强?这种差异源于哪儿? Anti-frustration weak, who’s fault? Encounter with the eldest child experience dissatisfaction on the run away from home, and even jumped to commit suicide, to a small child needs a little emotional excitement, for a long time into the negative emotions indifferent, appease ineffective, More and more children like flowers in the greenhouse, anti-frustration ability “is almost weak burst”. Can not help but get us into a deep thought: Children’s ability to fight against weaknesses, who is wrong? In such a general environment of weak anti-frustration, why are some children strong anti-frustration? This difference stems from where?