孩子升入初中,不少家长有些紧张,因为初中阶段常常被人们说得很可怕:青春期、叛逆期=学坏期,学习任务加重=成绩下滑,孩子长成半个大人=亲子沟通恶化……其实这些都是极端情况,大多数孩子仍能顺利度过。如果想在这个承上启下阶段能够跳上更高的台阶,则需要家长付出更多的心力。 Children into junior high school, many parents nervous, because junior high school are often said to be terrible: puberty, rebellion = bad period, learning tasks are aggravated = results decline, the child grow into half an adult = poor parent-child communication ... In fact, these are extreme cases, most children can still spend it well. If you want to be able to jump to a higher level during this stage of ascendant, you need parents to pay more effort.